You are not doing it wrong
Does this sound familiar?
Five moments almost every coordinating family knows by heart.
The 40-message group chat
Somewhere between the photos and the thumbs-ups is the one message that mattered — who’s driving Mom on Thursday. Nobody can find it now.
“I thought you were handling it.”
The insurance form sat for two weeks because everyone assumed someone else had it. Nothing was ever actually assigned to anyone.
The spreadsheet only one person updates
It started as the shared plan. Now it’s one sibling’s unpaid second job — and nobody else remembers where the link is.
Three calls to learn how the appointment went
Who drove? Did it run late? Was a follow-up booked? The logistics scatter across three phone calls the moment everyone hangs up.
The sibling far away who wants to help
They would gladly take the phone calls and the paperwork — if they could just see what actually needs doing this week.
None of this happens because families don’t care. It happens because group chats, spreadsheets, and memory were never designed for coordinating someone’s support.
EverElder was.
Roles and permissions
Who does what in a typical family
Everyone gets a role that matches how they help — and sees exactly what they should, nothing more.
Usually the person who sets the workspace up — often the sibling who lives closest and has been carrying most of the day-to-day coordination.
A sibling who shares the planning, often from another city: creates and assigns tasks, keeps the calendar honest, posts updates after calls.
Siblings, in-laws, adult grandchildren — the people who take on tasks and share what they see, without managing the whole picture.
A trusted neighbor or a relative who should stay informed — able to see what they need, without editing anything.
Six roles in total, from Owner to Limited Guest — permissions are enforced on our servers, not just hidden in the interface. Read how access control works.
Pricing for families
Most families start with Family
For families coordinating together — $19/month for up to five family members, with tasks, the shared calendar, documents, expenses, and the private family feed. Larger families and more complex care grow into Family Plus at $39/month.
- 1 supported-person profile
- Up to 5 family members
- Task assignments and updates
- Private family feed
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Give your family one calm place to coordinate.
Set up your private workspace in minutes. Invite your siblings when you’re ready — everyone gets the role that fits.
Designed for family coordination. EverElder does not provide medical care or emergency services.